"Keep Your Fork"

There was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and
had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in
order", she contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to
discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she
wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what
outfitshe wanted to be buried in.  The woman also requested to be buried
with her favorite Bible.
Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing to leave when the
woman suddenly remembered something very important to her. "There's
one more thing," she said excitedly. "What's that?" came the pastor's
"This is very important," the woman continued.
"I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand." The pastor stood
looking at the woman, not knowing quite what to say. "That surprises
you, doesn't it?" the woman asked. "Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the
request," said the pastor. The woman explained. "In all my years of
attending church socials and potluck dinners, I always remember that
when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would
inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork'. It was my favorite part because I
knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or
deep-dish apple pie.  Something wonderful, and with substance! So, I
just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and
I want them to wonder "What's with the fork?'. Then I want you to tell
"Keep your fork....the best is yet to come". The pastor's eyes welled
up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman goodbye. He knew this would
be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also
knew that the woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She KNEW that
something better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the woman's casket and they saw
the pretty dress she was wearing and her favorite Bible and the fork
placed in her right hand. Over and over, the pastor heard the question "What's
with the fork?" And over and over he smiled. During his message, the pastor
told the people of the conversation he had with the woman shortly
before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it
symbolized to her. The pastor told the people how he could not stop thinking about
the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop
thinking about it either. He was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you oh so
gently, that the best is yet to come.
Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and
encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and
they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you